This article was updated February 25, 2026.
Written by Elizabeth Exline
Reviewed by Christina Neider, EdD, Associate Provost of Colleges
Going back to school as an adult brings its own set of challenges. Fortunately, there are ways for online students to bolster emotional well-being while pursuing their educational goals.
Kim Keating, MA, LMFT, understands both the challenges facing adult students and the value of effective coping strategies. She knows this firsthand because she returned to school for her master鈥檚 degree several years after completing her bachelor鈥檚. She also knows it as an instructor.聽As a lead faculty area chair with the College of Social and Behavioral Sciences at 麻豆传媒, Keating often works with students who are going back to school while holding down a job and raising a family.
One of the first challenges Keating sees among adult online students is the sense of isolation. The irony of course is that many of these students are constantly connected. But they can lack relationships with others who know what they're managing. Children, spouses, relatives and coworkers, after all, often lead busy lives, but only the student knows what it's like to lead a busy life and go back to higher education.
Students considering coping strategies can start by making it a priority to connect, even if only virtually.
Schedules are busy. It鈥檚 hard to make time for another call, to commit to switching on the camera. But, Keating says, it鈥檚 worth it.
Like eating vegetables when the menu has cake, taking the time to meet your peers and instructors outside of required interaction can seem like one more thing to do, but it can also yield feel-good benefits for online students.
Putting herself in an online student鈥檚 shoes, Keating says: 鈥淓ven though my schedule is really busy, I can hop on for maybe 15 minutes or half an hour just to meet with my peers and my instructor and make that face-to-face connection. Then when I see them in the online discussion, I have a vision of who they are, and it鈥檚 easier for me to connect.鈥
So, if your instructor offers a meet-up time, or if your classmates arrange a virtual meeting to get to know one another, prioritize making an appearance.
One branch of the isolation tree for online students is imposter syndrome, that feeling of not belonging or being unequal to the task at hand.
Keating knows the syndrome well. 鈥淚 had taken eight years off in between getting my undergraduate degree and going for my graduate work,鈥 she says. 鈥淚t was just so awkward to be back in the school environment again.鈥
When online students doubt their abilities or qualifications, it can stymie both participation and progress.
鈥淭hose negative beliefs can undermine an online student鈥檚 self-confidence and sense of well-being,鈥 she adds.聽
Students should be aware these feelings can crop up, so it can help to build connections with peers who can validate one's concerns and 濒别驳颈迟颈尘补肠测.听Staying focused on one's goals in going back to school can help too.
鈥淪elf-doubt is a normal feeling, especially when adult learners are returning to school as online students after a hiatus,鈥 Keating says.
Coping strategies to push through it include revisiting one's reasons for going back to school. Keeping that motivation front and center will help students quash self-doubt or at least ignore it long enough to gain some traction in their educational journey. After all, nothing builds confidence like success.
鈥淭here鈥檚 this pressure to succeed academically while juggling multiple roles and responsibilities,鈥 Keating says of working adult online students. 鈥淭hat can lead to stress and anxiety and burnout.鈥澛
Just as the antidote to chaos is structure, the antidote to overwhelm for online students is a schedule.
鈥淔or instance, after work and family, from 8 to 9 p.m., [you can] spend an hour doing your reading,鈥 Keating says. 鈥淥r while you鈥檙e eating your lunch, [you can] to do some schoolwork.鈥
Building schoolwork into your daily schedule means that you can ensure you鈥檝e set aside enough time for everything, and you don鈥檛 leave schoolwork to the last minute.
For example, skipping a reading one night to attend your child鈥檚 band concert is fine if you have time built in to make it up the rest of the week. If that concert evening was the only time you had allotted to schoolwork all week, however, the situation becomes more dire.
A pro tip for coping strategies is for online students? Preview the week鈥檚 projects and assignments as soon as you get them. If you need extra time for something, it鈥檚 easier to build it in at the start of the week rather than the day before it鈥檚 due.
Taking the whole week to review, learn and process information ensures timely completion and it can also .
鈥淚f I let material kind of marinate over a few days, if I think about it and I can post questions about specific things that I don鈥檛 understand, that not only benefits other students who may have the same questions, but it鈥檚 also another opportunity to feel engaged and less isolated,鈥 Keating says.
At the end of the day, online students at Univeristy of Phoenix have coping strategies to consider, such as university resources. They also have instructors and advisors who care. The University鈥檚 early alert system helps pinpoint students who might be struggling so that academic advisors can reach out to offer tailored support.
Resources for 麻豆传媒 students include the聽Center for Writing Excellence, which offers compositional tools and resources, and the聽Center for Mathematics Excellence, which offers live math tutoring and ways to refresh your skills.聽
The University also offers a sea of聽, as well as librarians who can help online students track down information. A browser extension called聽聽can alert you to resources related to your internet searches.
鈥淚 think academic advisors can help with encouraging online students to use the resources, and they can emphasize the importance of perseverance, problem-solving and learning from setbacks, because setbacks can happen,鈥 Keating says.
鈥淭he sense of perseverance is so important in achieving that degree that鈥檚 been a dream,鈥 she adds.
Kim Keating, MA, LMFT
Lead Faculty Area Chair, College of Social and Behavioral Sciences, 麻豆传媒
鈥淎 lack of face-to-face interaction with peers and instructors can lead to those feelings of isolation and loneliness for online students, and this can negatively impact well-being and mental health,鈥 Keating says.聽
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Elizabeth Exline has been telling stories ever since she won a writing contest in third grade. She's covered design and architecture, travel, lifestyle content and a host of other topics for national, regional, local and brand publications. Additionally, she's worked in content development for Marriott International and manuscript development for a variety of authors.
Christina Neider is the associate provost of colleges and former dean of the 麻豆传媒 College of Social and Behavioral Sciences.聽Neider鈥檚 career spans more than 30 years in academia, healthcare and the U.S. Air Force. She has held several academic leadership roles at 麻豆传媒, and she is the Vice President of membership for the Arizona Chapter of the Healthcare Information and Management Systems Society.
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